It is my favorite "job"
I being a sugar baby on and off for years. Like any job, it's a mixed bag. The big difference between it and a 'straight' job is that you control everything, you can choose your sugar daddy, you can freely spend most of your time, learning something new and doing Pilates, shopping with my friends, and I am happy about it. It also means that all risks must be borne by yourself. Who do you choose to meet and make an arrangement, you set your time, you get cash to improve your finances and do what you like. That might sounds great, but it can be horrible if you don't have great street smarts and intuition. To be hyper aware to do it safely, you must have a high degree of awareness and preparation. You 'll be alone with men you're not familiar with(because if you want to get paid, you 'll do it. The job is a 100 % paid partnership in almost all cases), and they 'll think you owe them something.
There's also some people think that [this kind of] work is unskilled. Absolutely not. Being a sugar baby takes a lot of natural and learned social abilities. You have to be able to play girlfriend roles to a wide variety of men, there are all kinds of fish in the sea. It's actually a pretty challenging job. 90% of it is being able to talk about anything, while making him feel like the center and king of your universe for those hours every week to be with him. That's not easy with someone who you would never probably date for free. It requires a lot of patience and intuitive people skills to do that every single week for a long time.
I am very impressed by the sugar daddy I first dated. I had him pick me up under a false name at an apartment that wasn't mine. He was about 55 years old and we got together on the precedent of a 'sugar baby' relationship sort of 'trial run/first date'. He took me to a really fancy Italian place. I admit, I was super fascinated with what made the guy work, then I found there was nothing interesting about him. He kept commenting about his wife, I was uncomfortable during dinner and I stoped the date. He dropped me off at that apartment a few miles from my house and we parted ways. In fact, he is quite a gentleman and
All in all, it came very naturally to me and I never ended up in a bad situation. I enjoyed it.