5 Signs Sugar Baby Is Losing Interest In Dating You & What Can You Do(Part 1)

5 Signs Sugar Baby Is Losing Interest In Dating You & What Can You Do(Part 1)

5 Signs Sugar Baby Is Losing Interest In Dating You & What Can You Do(Part 1)

Hey, are you aware of any signs that your sugar baby is losing interest in dating you? In fact, no matter how many dates you've had with sugar babies on sugar daddy arrangement sites, you'll still feel bad when your date starts pulling away. If you're worried that your date's sugar baby might be considering breaking up with you, watch out for different signs that she's losing interest in you.

When a sugar baby loses interest in a sugar daddy, these signs can range from very obvious to very subtle. Sometimes these signs can also be double red flags, meaning that getting out of the relationship may actually be a very good thing for both of you. Whether or not your date's sugar baby is still viable after she starts to lose interest in you (and in many cases, you can easily reignite the chemistry between you), there are a few things you can do to keep your confidence and overall health when she shows these signs. Check out these 5 signs of what you can do if your sugar baby loses interest in dating you.

Sign #1: She keeps you at arm's length

Suppose you've been dating a sugar baby for a while and you're happy to introduce her to your friends and vice versa. If your date's sugar baby suddenly doesn't want you to attend any of her friends' parties or group outings (girls' nights or bachelorette parties obviously don't count), or keeps canceling or postponing dates, chances are she's losing interest.

What you can do:

If your date keeps you hidden from any of their friends or family, chances are she's emotionally inaccessible. Other emotionally unavailable signals include:

Criticize you, constantly find fault with you.

Claim not to be interested in things like relationship labels.

Mood swings, and she's hot and cold with you.

To criticize or talk incessantly about her predecessor.

In this situation, the best thing you can do is communicate with her in a confident, not confrontational way. Use "me" messages when talking to her to prevent her from becoming defensive. For example, you might say: "I noticed that you spent a lot of time with your friends and didn't invite me to certain events as you used to. When this happens, I think you might lose interest or want to pull away. I want to be honest with you about how I feel and how you feel about everything."

Be honest, but be open and calm. By giving her a chance to open up to you, you can get a clearer picture of her behavior and either find a way to solve the problem or understand that this may not be the best match. Remember, be sure to gauge her reaction and keep it in mind. If she beat around the bush, makes a lot of half-hearted excuses, or gets angry with you, it's dangerous. If they don't care about your feelings, especially if they don't allow you to be honest with them about your feelings, don't go on a date with them.

Sign #2: She doesn't text or call you that often

It used to be that your phone was bombarded with her sweet messages and calls, each one filled with smiley faces and loving emojis, each one filled with laughter. But all of a sudden, the emoticons are gone, the laughter is gone, and she'll only respond to your text with one word, if any. You find yourself initiating almost every conversation, or completely initiating every conversation. These are clear signs that she has lost interest in you.

What you can do:

Take the time to check your text messages when you want to continue your communication with the sugar baby. Ask yourself the following questions:

Do you text her often, even when she doesn't respond?

You just send her messages like "hi," "how was your day?" or "how was your day?" A text message like this?

Do you only send text messages that require a yes or no answer?

Do you send her weird pictures? By weird, I mean, have you ever sent her a random half-naked photo or selfie that you didn't smile at or that looked murderous? In my experience, this is one of the biggest mistakes sugar daddies make!

If you have experienced any of the above, you can use different strategies to get her to respond to you.

Ask open-ended questions. A boring question like "did you have a good day?" How are you feeling today? I know you're nervous, but I totally believe you killed it. Instead, ask her an open-ended question that requires not just a one-word answer, but one that is tailored to her interests or those of both of you. For example, if there's a movie you both love and it's coming out, you can text her like this:

"Hey, my baby. There's a really good movie coming out this Saturday. Do you want to come with me?" Such texts not only cater to your common interests, but also provide a compelling dating concept.

Stop sending weird photos. Don't post a photo unless it's cool and related to a common interest (for example, a picture of a cute dog at a dog park or a hike). If you scare her away with strange pictures, she will certainly show signs of losing interest in you.

Even if your body is really protruding, it's not sexy to send her a nude picture showing the edge of your trapezoidal belly -- it's weird. Sending a picture of a gym or semi-nude can make you look selfish, which is a big hurdle for most sugar babies. We want you to have confidence in yourself, but when that confidence becomes arrogance, you become less attractive to women.

When she disappeared. If you follow my advice and weeks go by without hearing from your date's sugar baby, I'm sorry to tell you that you've been dumped. When your date -- whether you're in a sugar relationship or a mature, long-term relationship -- completely disappears from your life without explanation, it means you've been dumped. I know it's terrible, but the most important thing to remember is that it's not your fault.

I'd love to keep offering you some help with dating sugar baby, so if you want to keep learning more, check out ourĀ Part 2!